Kids these days, always tapping away at their phones and computers. Their fingers racing across the tiny screens like a pianist heavy on caffeine. They say they’re “communicating”. But let me ask you this: Where’s the emotion? Where’s the soul in those sterile, carefully crafted messages? The pure joy of a handwritten thank-you note? Nowhere, I tell you. And that’s a crying shame.
Contrary to what seems to be the common belief among the younger crowd, communication, true heartfelt communication, is not conveyed solely through 140 characters or less in a Tweet or a brief, barely punctuated text message. It’s found in the careful curves and flourishes of a pen moving across fine paper, leaving behind a tangible artifact of someone’s gratitude. It’s found in the permanence of ink on paper, shaping words meant to express sincere feelings.
I remember, some years back, during one of those particularly biting Schenectady, NY winters, when I was forced to find refuge in my childhood home. The old heating system failed to thaw out the chill, making every bone in my 50-year-old body ache with cold. That’s when I discovered a box stashed away in the attic. The dusty box was filled with letters, cards and notes; some from my mother’s friends wishing her well during her pregnancy with me, others from folks across the street congratulating my father on his promotion.
Reading through those letters, feeling the embedded emotion in each carefully written word, the smiley faces in my mother’s casual script, the stern and serious tone of my father’s handwriting, even seeing the eventual shakiness as age crept onto them, was a profound experience. It was like a time capsule, an undiluted peek into the past through the voices of those who lived it. Those handwritten sentiments were so much more evocative, alight with personality and emotion, than the electronically typed and instantly erased communications we’re used to today.
Fast forward to just a couple of months ago. It was another dreary winter in Schenectady, but this time, not in the good old-fashioned bone-chilling way. Instead, it was the isolation induced by that dastardly thing the youngsters call the “new normal”; a bitter pill to swallow, might I add.
To my surprise, one day I received a small, slightly off-centered envelope in my mailbox. My eyebrows lifted with intrigue when I noted the return address. It was from a local school kid, thanking me for my yearly contributions during their annual fundraisers. The note was far from what you’d call articulate. The handwriting was less than perfect, the spelling could use some work, and the grammar…let’s not even go there.
But you know what, the charm and sincerity it held was worth more than a hundred perfectly typed emails or texts. That crinkly piece of paper felt alive. The warmth it offered was genuine, visceral. The errors, innocent and heartwarming. It evoked an emotion, unlike any technology can elicit.
There’s something to be said about the patience and dedication it takes to write by hand. Not only does it demand you to put some effort into each word, but also forces you to reflect upon your feelings, think more deeply about what you want to say.
In this digital era, where communications can seem ugly and impersonal, and the tone often misunderstood, perhaps it’s time we revisited the written word. Maybe it’s time we resurrected the handwritten letter, starting with something as simple and impactful as a thank-you note.
So, here’s a challenge to the young whippersnappers out there, next time you have to say “thanks”, put down your smartphone and pick up a pen. Try writing out your thoughts. Even if you start with just a sentence or two, I promise you’ll discover the pure joy a handwritten thank-you note brings. Both to you, and to the person reading it.
And who knows, you might find yourself falling in love with the art of handwritten communication, just the way this old-timer, Brian McCarthy, did. Etch your emotions in ink, leave a lasting mark, and give the world something to remember you by. Your words, after all, are the best legacy you can leave behind.
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